I think this article really reflects the kind of relationship problems that is currently faced by most of us teenagers.
The article original sauce comes from here.
Translation for the article by Boon.
其实每个男孩，本来都是想做一个感情专一的好男人的。
Every guy, wanted to be a good guy who are loyal to love initially,
其实每个男孩，本来看女孩子都是看脸而不是胸部的。
Every guy, look at girl's face instead of breast initially,
其实每个男孩，本来都是不会讲黄色笑话的。
Every guy, don't know anything about sexual jokes initially.
其实每个男孩，本来都是渴望爱一个人直到永远的。
Every guy, desire to love someone forever initially,
只是，没有任何女孩爱这样的男孩，她们觉得这样的男孩太幼稚，太古板，没有情趣。
But then, no girls love this type of boys, they felt this kind of boy too childish, too old fashion, no excitement,
于是男孩开始改变，变成女孩喜欢的那种嘴角挂着坏坏的笑 玩世不恭或者幽默。
That why, guy start to evolve, turn into those man with sinister laugh, carefree attitude with sense of humour.
开始学会说甜言蜜语而不是心里想说的话
They start to have sweet talk instead of telling what inside boy heart
开始学会假装关心，学会给女孩送小饰物讨好她 ，
They start to pretend to care, mastering the art of giving small gift to the girls,
学会如何追求，如何把握爱情。
They learn how to flirt, how to handle love,
或者看破红尘，游戏情场，成为女人恨恨的那种男人，
or, see through the ironies of life, turn love into game, and evolve into man that all girls hates,
他们可以很容易俘获女孩子的心，但是他们也会在黑的夜里叼着烟流泪。
They can easily take a girl heart, but in the meanwhile their heart will bleed in the middle of the night.
心里有爱的时候，没有女孩，有了女孩，却永远没有了爱的感觉
When guy love a girl, there is no girl : but when they have girl on their side, they don't have the feeling of love.
在听到女人抱怨世上没有一个好男人时候，
So, that why , when the guys heard the complaint from the girls, where they is no more good guy left.
他们不会再去努力做个好男人，只是微笑着擦肩而过。
Those guys wont try their very best to be a good man, they just pass by showing a slight of grin.
真心想去爱时,女孩不爱
Really wan to love that time, the girls dont love.
男人才变坏
男人才变坏
that why boy turn into bad guy.
I find that this is perhaps the cause of "man not bad, women no like" relationships nowadays.
The fact is that good guys only wants to give their best to the girl they like but only to be meet with despair. Yet girls, although they know they will get heartbroken soon, still chooses bad guys for short term excitement.
Imagine this situation:
Girl met Guy A who treats her super nice.
Girl thinks that Guy A will stick for long since Guy A really likes Girl.
Girl then assumes that since she's so hawt she can find someone better than Guy A.
Girl then met Guy B who is a total jackass but totally cool.
Girl and Guy B couple together.
Guy A feels disappointed, sad and left.
Girl then complain, get upset and cringe over Guy B because he does not treat her good.
Girl and Guy B break up.
Girl regret, but Guy A already gone.
See, why go over a big fuss when Girl can just opt for Guy A and perhaps live happily ever after? Or at least a better relationship than with Guy B.
Girls always have this mentality that they can always get better ones than what they already have (or at least, near them). And when they finally realise how good Guy A is, it is already too late.
Just like the Chinese proverbs, 苏洲过后没艇搭. When a boat leaves, it will not return anymore.
Remember that there is always a chance that the perfect guy for you could just be the one right beside you. And instead of complaining why all guys are bad, or all good boys are dead, remember that there are still good ones around you (like Guy A), just that you never really noticed them...
But the definition of good guys and bad guys? This, you'll have to find out yourself.
The fact is that good guys only wants to give their best to the girl they like but only to be meet with despair. Yet girls, although they know they will get heartbroken soon, still chooses bad guys for short term excitement.
Imagine this situation:
Girl met Guy A who treats her super nice.
Girl thinks that Guy A will stick for long since Guy A really likes Girl.
Girl then assumes that since she's so hawt she can find someone better than Guy A.
Girl then met Guy B who is a total jackass but totally cool.
Girl and Guy B couple together.
Guy A feels disappointed, sad and left.
Girl then complain, get upset and cringe over Guy B because he does not treat her good.
Girl and Guy B break up.
Girl regret, but Guy A already gone.
See, why go over a big fuss when Girl can just opt for Guy A and perhaps live happily ever after? Or at least a better relationship than with Guy B.
Girls always have this mentality that they can always get better ones than what they already have (or at least, near them). And when they finally realise how good Guy A is, it is already too late.
Just like the Chinese proverbs, 苏洲过后没艇搭. When a boat leaves, it will not return anymore.
Remember that there is always a chance that the perfect guy for you could just be the one right beside you. And instead of complaining why all guys are bad, or all good boys are dead, remember that there are still good ones around you (like Guy A), just that you never really noticed them...
But the definition of good guys and bad guys? This, you'll have to find out yourself.
